As moms, our days are packed from morning to night. Between caring for kids, managing a household, working, and maybe even chasing a personal or professional goal, there’s hardly any time left to breathe—let alone focus on ourselves. That’s why I want to talk about something that could completely change the game for you: hiring a house cleaner.

Now before you start thinking, “That sounds nice, but I can’t afford it” or “I’d feel too guilty letting someone else do what I should be doing,” stay with me. I get it. I had the same thoughts at first. But after years of working toward big goals in the middle of motherhood, I’ve learned that hiring a house cleaner isn’t a luxury—it’s a strategy.

Let’s break it down together.

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Time vs. Money: What Do You Have More Of?

When you’re working toward a dream—whether that’s starting a business, writing a book, or simply creating time to rest—you need two things: time and energy. If you’re anything like me, you’re probably short on both. That’s where hiring a house cleaner can help.

You might be surprised how many moms can afford a house cleaner but have never actually looked into it. The first objection I hear is: “It probably costs too much.” But here’s the truth: you don’t really know until you get a few quotes. I’ve had friends receive one outrageous estimate and assume all cleaning services were expensive—only to later discover a trusted cleaner that cost a third of the price.

If it’s within your budget, even just once or twice a month, this could be a way to buy back 5–10 hours of your life. Hours that you could use to work on a goal, start a project, or finally rest without guilt.

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What Will I Do While They Clean?

Another hesitation I hear often is: “I’d feel weird just sitting there while someone else cleans my house.” Totally valid. That feeling of awkwardness is real, especially the first few times.

But here’s the reframe: you’re not being lazy—you’re being strategic. You don’t have to scrub your floors to prove your worth as a mom. You can use that time however you want. Run errands. Take a walk. Work on your laptop. Sit outside with a book. Or simply relax.

Personally, I usually work from home while the cleaners are there. I’ll just switch rooms when they get to the one I’m in. And when I can, I read outside and soak in the magic of having a clean house without having lifted a finger.

And if it really bothers you, you can always clean alongside them. No shame in that. The key is finding a rhythm that works for your comfort level while still freeing up time in your week.

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Let’s Talk About Trust

Some moms hesitate to hire help because they’re worried about theft or damage. That’s understandable. It’s your home, your safe space. But here’s what’s worked for me: be smart, but don’t let fear be the boss.

If you’re concerned, lock up your valuables. Don’t leave out cash or heirloom jewelry. Use a fireproof safe or a locked drawer. Ask around—your neighbors or friends probably know someone they trust.

And sure, things might go wrong once in a while. A decorative vase might get broken. (That happened to me once—and it turned into the perfect excuse to redecorate my daughter’s bathroom!) But 99.9% of the time, if you hire someone reputable, it’s absolutely fine. The peace of mind and time saved are worth it.

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Tips for Hiring a House Cleaner That Fits Your Life

Over the years, I’ve picked up some tips that can help make this process smoother:

• Ask for personal referrals – Your friends or neighbors probably know someone they love and trust.
  
• Get at least three quotes – Don’t assume one price reflects the industry standard.
  
• Consider a team over individuals – A group of 4–5 cleaners can finish your whole house in 1–2 hours instead of one person taking five.
  
• Schedule around your garbage day – My favorite hack! Have your house cleaner come the day before trash pickup so they can take out the garbage as part of their service. It saves me one more step.
  

Even if you decide hiring a house cleaner is just a temporary solution—say, while you’re launching a new project or during a particularly busy season—it can be enough to get the momentum you need.

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It’s Okay to Ask for Help

Here’s the bottom line: You don’t have to do it all yourself.

There is no gold medal for scrubbing toilets or dusting fan blades (which, let’s be honest, I’ve never remembered to clean). You’re allowed to create space in your life. You’re allowed to invest in support. You’re allowed to dream and actually take steps to make those dreams happen—even in the messy middle of motherhood.

If hiring a house cleaner gives you the time, energy, or mental clarity you need to pursue your goals, then it’s more than worth it.

So what would you do with 5–10 extra hours this week?

Go do that.

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