Motherhood often demands so much of us that itโs easy to lose sight of our own dreams. But what if you could reclaim your desires and start living a life that feels aligned, exciting, and even a little magical? Thatโs what manifesting your dreams is all aboutโand itโs not as woo-woo or complicated as it may seem.
In this episode, Iโm sharing what manifestation really is, how itโs worked in my own life (in ways I couldnโt have planned), and how you can start inviting your desires inโright now, even in the chaos of motherhood.
What Does “Manifesting Your Dreams” Really Mean?
Manifestation is about getting clear on what you want, putting it out into the world, and staying open to receiving it in ways you might not expect. Itโs not about controlling every detailโitโs about creating energetic alignment. Youโre essentially telling the universe: โHey, Iโm ready for this. Bring it on.โ
For moms especially, this means making space for yourself and your desiresโno guilt, no apology. Because when you start going after your dreams, everyone around you benefits too.
Step 1: Get Clear on What You Want (Using All Five Senses)
The first step in manifesting your dreams is to know exactly what you wantโand to visualize it in full sensory detail. Ask yourself:
- What does it look like?
- What does it smell like?
- What does it sound like?
- What would it feel like to touch?
- What would I taste if I were living this life?
Letโs say you want an organized, peaceful home office. Donโt just think โless clutter.โ Think soft chairs, the scent of eucalyptus, spa-like vibes, natural light, and calming music in the background. Getting specific engages your subconscious and helps you recognize the opportunities around you.
Step 2: Keep Your Words Positive
Our words are powerful. Instead of saying, โI donโt want to feel so disorganized,โ try, โI want to feel calm, clear, and organized.โ Avoid focusing on what you donโt want. State what you do wantโclearly and confidently.
This shift is a cornerstone of manifesting your dreams, because what we focus on expands. Language shapes belief, and belief shapes action.
Step 3: Let Go of the Timeline
One of the biggest lessons Iโve learned about manifestation is this: the universe works on its own schedule. Yes, I set intentions and make vision boards for the year ahead, but sometimes things show up soonerโor later. And thatโs okay.
When you stay open and flexible, you’re more likely to recognize when something amazing shows up unexpectedly.
Step 4: Stay Open to How It Will Happen
You donโt need to know exactly how your dream will come to life. You just need to know what the dream is.
Take my story of manifesting a home organizer. I had put โPinterest-worthy officeโ on my vision board. A few weeks later, I introduced myself to another mom at a birthday partyโshe turned out to be a professional organizer. Total surprise. Complete alignment. That project led to not only an organized office and garage but also a genuine new friendship I never saw coming.
This is what I call a collateral blessingโan unexpected gift that comes alongside your original goal. When youโre manifesting your dreams, leave room for those beautiful surprises.
Real-Life Example: First-Class Flights to London
Hereโs another powerful story. My family wanted to travel to London, and I dreamed of flying first-classโthose cozy pods, real sleep, all of it. At first, the cost seemed impossible. But because I had put that dream on my vision board, I was determined to find a way.
Long story short: I discovered a flight combo that came in under budget, andโmiraculouslyโour tax return ended up being almost the exact amount we needed. That dream came true in a big way, and the entire trip felt elevated, memorable, and restful (even with kids!).
A Quick Manifestation Check-In
Now itโs your turn. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:
- What would make your life easier right now?
- What would make your days more fun?
- Whatโs something thatโs been quietly on your heart?
Let it be big or small. Let it be secret. Let it feel selfish, even. If it matters to you, it matters.
Manifesting your dreams starts with believing theyโre worth pursuingโno matter how long theyโve been sitting on the back burner.
Vision Boards: Your Manifestation Shortcut
Iโve found that having a vision board makes all of this easier. It keeps your dreams front and center, trains your brain to look for opportunities, and builds confidence when things start falling into place.
If you donโt have one yet, I offer a done-for-you vision board experience that helps you get started quickly and with clarity. Because sometimes a little help is all you need to finally take that first step.
Final Thought
Whether itโs a luxury home office, a trip across the ocean, or just a bit more space to breatheโmanifesting your dreams is entirely possible, even in the busy middle of motherhood. You donโt have to wait for a perfect time. You just have to begin.
โจ Whatโs one dream youโre ready to manifest? Share it with me via email or DMโIโd love to cheer you on.
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